Cherish the Good Thing

In America, we've been conditioned to want more.  Bigger TVs, nicer cars, more expensive houses, just more, more more.  The Bible says in Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD."  First, a wife must be found.  Secondly, a wife is considered good.  The good thing represents the favor of the LORD.  Knowing this, why do we as men find it hard to recognize our "good thing".  We look across the fence, across the street, around the corner, at work and everywhere else trying to add to what is already complete.  Or, we treat relationships so cavalierly that we don't give things time to develop to even know if she is the "one".  Put simply, how can we find the "one" when we are always busy looking for the next one?  Be patient, be diligent, be content and be blessed.